How to finger a lesbian

Center her pleasure. Shepherd says. Of course, if you're going to have sex with another vagina-haver, we suggest you remember that aforementioned queer girl etiquette and touch base with your partner before venturing into their underpants. For responsible fingering, grab yourself some latex gloves. Having pleasure from both finger and clit stimulation can lead to an epic orgasm on all fronts. I can never emphasise enough that an orgasm is not the be all and end all of a satisfying sexual experience — and of course the less you stress, the more likely it is you'll manage it in the future. Put your feet flat on the bed.

There's no standard amount of time or number of dates before you bring up the word "girlfriend," but if you're both happy and interested, the moment will come. Below are a few penetrative techniques for you and your partner to try. Part 1. All Categories.

How to. This makes the vagina slicker and more accommodating of penetration. Realize that lesbian bodies come in many forms including pre-surgery trans women. Talk about your expectations. If your answers are all yesses, then it is accurate to assume she is a lesbian.